Plans & Unanswered Prayers ~ Chicago Wedding Photographer

It’s funny how things work out.

Sometimes things work out in such a way that you can’t help but laugh, and appreciate the fact that although you may plan and plan and plan, God knows better than we do.

In fact, I was reminded yesterday when talking with a friend about all the different prayers I’ve said in my life that I’m pretty relieved ended up being unanswered. (You know the ones… “Please let this relationship work out. Please let him love me as much as I love him. Please let me get into this school. Please let me get this job… and on… and on… and on.) Because when those prayers didn’t get answered things turned out much better than I had planned, and a million times better than I could have ever imagined.

 

So in this next year, it is my goal to stop trying to make so many plans…

To let things go…

To understand not everything is in my control…

To trust that things will work out…

To stop worrying about things I cannot do anything about…

 

 

Instead, I’m going to do my best to live each day to the fullest, be the best person I can be, and remember that God knows better than I do.

 

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May 13, 2013 - 1:07 pm

Kristin - Beautiful and true! We can all take a page from this book, I think.

May 13, 2013 - 2:27 pm

Amanda Miller - Yes, yes, yes! I have been really trying to work on the ‘trust that things will work out’ thing and it is already alleviating so much stress in my life.

May 13, 2013 - 2:33 pm

Alison - I am THE WORST at trusting that “things will work out”. Thanks for the lovely reminder that there’s someone else in control, haha. <3

May 13, 2013 - 2:43 pm

Liz and Ryan - Yes! I love this Christy! Thanks for this reminder!!

May 13, 2013 - 2:44 pm

Emilia Jane - A thousand times yes. Things will shake out as they should. I struggle so much with letting go, but every time I do things grow in beautiful ways. Love you lady.

May 13, 2013 - 2:44 pm

Brooke - Letting go is so hard, especially when it feels like everything and everyone is working against you. But gentle reminders are always welcome. Excellent post this morning.

May 13, 2013 - 3:36 pm

ashley barnett - Yes yes! Why do we hold onto the things that we have no control over?! (Rhetorical question by the way!) :)

May 13, 2013 - 3:56 pm

Annie - Exactly. :) We all have to learn this in life. I learned this about 7 or 8 years ago (I’m a lot older than you lol. I’m glad I finally figured it out, and now when I see younger people going through it, I have to stop and let them see it for themselves–even though sometimes I wish I could warn them. You cannot tell this to anyone, they have to experience life, and figure it out. :)

May 13, 2013 - 4:39 pm

ZipporahK - Love this!! So so true!

May 13, 2013 - 4:51 pm

Caili - Christy, I love this post! You are such a beautiful person, inside and out!

May 13, 2013 - 7:18 pm

Evan Hunt - Too often I pray asking for what I think I need. Too little do I pray asking for what God wants for me. It’s good to hear you see the big picture. Sometimes what we think we need isn’t what we need at all. :)

Personal Photo Books ~ Artifact Uprising

I was recently introduced to the company Artifact Uprising by my dear friend, Jess. She mentioned she loves their photo books, and I’ve been dying to find a company I can get on board with for all of our personal photos (of which there are MANY) – so I thought I’d check them out! (Remember the Lift List I wrote over a year ago?? See #18.)

So I checked out their site… Beautiful! The books looked stunning, and I loved their philosophy (Off your device / Into your life) and environmental policy! It is so true that so few of us actually PRINT photos anymore. And I can’t help but wonder – what happens when we’re gone? Those photos sit on Facebook and Instagram for all of eternity? What is there for our children and grandchildren to page through?

I want our kids to sit down with all these photos we printed, and books we made in their laps – and see how we lived our lives. I want them to feel something about their family. About our legacy. I want them to be moved and inspired. I want them to see where they came from and how we lived back in the ‘olden days’…;)And unless we make these memories available – that isn’t going to happen. (It’s doubtful they’ll go through my blog and Facebook page 100 years from now… right?!)

So – I’m over the moon happy that I’ve found an awesome company to make this a reality! Photo books! From our personal photos! Amazing!!

Here’s what we made!!! (You upload your own galleries of images and then design your book using different page templates they have to choose from in their in-site design suite – which I loved! Super quick & easy to do!)

 

 

The first was a 50-page hardcover book (square 8.5″ x 8.5″ with the partial dust jacket over the “parchment” color cover) that I used to tell the story of our trip to D.C. for the Inauguration in January! I’m not going to lie – I had envisioned this BIG FAT coffee table book (I think because a lot of the examples they have on their site are big fat books) – so I was surprised at how thin it was for 50+ pages… but I love it none-the-less! The pages are matte (not glossy or lustre), and the photos look pretty true to color (although I thought a few were a bit dim/faded compared to the originals – but who knows – that may just be the matte look).

 

 

Next up was a softcover 6″ x 8″ 40-page book that I designed to tell the story of our proposal! I didn’t have enough photos to fill all 40 pages, so I actually wrote out the story to correspond with the photos on the opposite page (which is awesome that you can add text to pages too)! I’m so excited to have this story saved somewhere to re-read as we get older!:)

 

 

Last but not least is a little 5.5″ x 5.5″ softcover book of ancient Chloe puppy  pictures! Okay – not really ANCIENT – but from her first 4 months with us in 2011. It’s fun to have little puppy Chloe in a book to look back on, and I hope to print more with current photos. Especially because these were taken on our crappy old Android phones before they had Instagram available – so the image quality itself is pretty terrible – and that doesn’t have anything to do with the print quality or books! That is just crappy tiny phone photos for you!

 

 

So that’s it! What do you think?! If you’ve been itching to get some photos into books – I’d definitely recommend Artifact Uprising! The books are really great quality and have some beautiful cover options! Another company I love for Instagram prints is http://printstagr.am/ - which we’ve used as well for individual prints & loved the quality of them as well!

However, I wouldn’t personally suggest using these books for wedding photos. Maybe it’s just me – but I like those in bigger, thicker, archival books, and appreciate the option to design the entire book from scratch for my couples – not using pre-set templates.

But for personal photo books for birthdays, vacations, and other stories from your life – I say go for it!:)

 

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May 10, 2013 - 1:25 pm

Emilia Jane - I’ve been meaning to order from there! So glad you love the books.

May 10, 2013 - 2:27 pm

Erin A. - Very cool! Thanks for sharing- would be good for Mother’s Day/Father’s Day gifts too!

May 10, 2013 - 4:57 pm

Lauren Wakefield - These are awesome! Are they expensive?? I need to do this. Like stat.

May 10, 2013 - 5:02 pm

Amanda Miller - Love mine for personal photos! I am blogging it next week (after I gift Katrina with it first, don’t want to ruin the surprise!). I agree about not for wedding photos though! I see so many of their books for personal projects in my future though!

May 10, 2013 - 5:05 pm

Amanda Miller - PS. You totally have me wanting to make a book of our proposal story! SUCH a good idea!

May 10, 2013 - 5:56 pm

Leah Laurent - You should do an update to your life list post – I bet you’ve ticked off a bunch!

May 10, 2013 - 6:00 pm

Rosa - WOW! Forget Blurb.. totally going to try them out! Love the simplicity, earth friendliness and not very expensive :)

Colin + Liz ~ Downtown Chicago Engagement Photography

I love love love it when awesome couples like Colin and Liz come into my life!! These two are the perfect mixture of crazy-in-love, total goofballs, super stylish, and ridiculously adorable together…. and I feel SO lucky that James and I get to hang out with them on their wedding day this fall!!

For their engagement session they wanted to hit up the area around the Newberry Library and the Chicago brown line train. And somehow we just happened to get super lucky and had one of the most beautiful spring days in the city so far for the shoot… It was nearly 80 degrees and perfectly sunny! Amazing!

These two were especially awesome and let me drag them ALL OVER the neighborhood for this shoot – including random alleyways, under the train tracks, on private front stoops, and everywhere in between. I think these photos capture their relationship so well, and hope they love them just as much as I do!

(*Side note – I’m obsessed with Liz’s stunning green eyes!! Actually, I’m a little jealous of them if I’m being honest…;))

 

I love this series because neither of them knew the other was up to anything until I told them! haha!

Oh my goodness – these two… gorgeous!

LIZ!!! oh.my.word.

Gotta love downtown Chicago and all its wonderful fill light bouncing off buildings!

Love her emerald ring!

 

Eeeeeeee!!! I was already excited for their wedding… but now I’m WAY EXCITED. Love them! xoxo!

 

 

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May 9, 2013 - 1:24 pm

Emilia Jane - LOVE LOVE LOVE

May 9, 2013 - 1:41 pm

Lauren Wakefield - The light in these in gorgeous!! And they are both so good-looking! Awesome awesome. I also love the train ones.

May 9, 2013 - 1:59 pm

Brooke - The train – LOVE IT! But my favorite is that little intimate moment on the brick wall. Ooh-la-la!

May 9, 2013 - 2:16 pm

Becca - This is beautiful! Also, I love that she’s wearing glasses!

May 9, 2013 - 4:11 pm

Lauren (PB&G) - I am in LOVE with this couple! Her outfit is rockin’ and I just love the energy they have together! Beautiful!!

May 9, 2013 - 4:32 pm

Elissa - Okay, all of these are just amazing.

May 9, 2013 - 5:38 pm

Amanda Miller - This might be my favorite session of yours!!! Her outfit is way too adorable! And that BW close up of her face….my god! So beautiful!

May 10, 2013 - 3:05 am

LeolaK - STUNNING SESSION!!!! LOVE IT!

May 10, 2013 - 11:59 pm

Thanh - Amazing photos and as a friend of the bride to be, you’ve captured them SO well! They are big, big goofballs and it is so nice to them so in the moment. LOVE your photography style, Christy, and I hope that I’m able to attend the wedding in October and meet you as well.

May 11, 2013 - 9:05 pm

Ben Elsass - In LOVE with these Christy! Really beautiful from beginning to end.

Happy Birthday James!!!

Today is James’ birthday!!!! (If you couldn’t already tell by the title of this post… haha) YAY!

 

For fun – here’s a flashback to us in May of 2007 (about 2 months into dating)… just BABIES we were!

 

James – I cannot begin to imagine what my life would look like if I hadn’t met you in that Chicago dive bar 6 years ago!;)

Life has turned out to be much more than I could have ever imagined possible because I have you by my side. You are my rock, my inspiration, and my biggest supporter. I’m so blessed to call you not only my business partner, but my LIFE partner.:)Here’s to many more birthdays celebrated together!

Love you so much bay!!!!

 

*And now I’m off to give James the gift of PRESENCE on this birthday. The one perk of working for yourself (if your birthday doesn’t fall on a Saturday during wedding season) – is that you can take time off to celebrate things like this! So I’ll see you all tomorrow back here! xoxo!

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May 8, 2013 - 12:47 pm

LeolaK - What a sweet post!!! Happy Birthday James!!!! Hooe you guys have a great day celebrating!!

May 8, 2013 - 1:40 pm

Katie Jane - Yay! Happy birthday to James!

May 8, 2013 - 2:18 pm

Emilia Jane - Happy Birthday James!! Last night was so fun :-)

May 8, 2013 - 2:40 pm

Katie - I love how much you guys love each other!! So sweet! Happy birthday James!! Sidenote: John and I started dating in 07 too! It was a good year!!!

May 8, 2013 - 3:53 pm

Amanda Miller - Happy Birthday James!!!! You guys are way too adorable!

May 8, 2013 - 4:44 pm

Elissa - Awwwww!! Happy birthday to James!

East Coast Trip ~ Washington D.C. Cherry Blossoms ~ Personal Film Work

I have a couple engagement sessions I’m wrapping up editing on that I can’t wait to share with you guys later this week! In the meantime, the film scans came back from Richard Photo Lab from our trip around parts of the east coast after Erin & Bret’s wedding in March – so I thought I’d share those for now!!

To challenge myself and to keep my love for photography alive & well (not that that has ever be a problem for me) – I decided to only allow myself to shoot film for personal photos as often as possible this year. So when we decided to make a longer trip out of heading out east for Erin & Bret’s wedding, I vowed to only shoot with my Mamiya 645 film camera (which is how I first learned photography in photo school) – instead of using our digital cameras that we use for work.

It took some serious patience for me to wait to see how the photos came out… but I tell you – it’s like Christmas morning when they finally arrive!!! Here are some of my favorites from the trip! (Everything was shot with my Mamiya 645 film camera on Fuji 400h film and processed/scanned by Richard Photo Lab.)

 

After Erin & Bret’s wedding on Chesapeake Bay near Baltimore, MD, we drove down to D.C. Sunday to see the cherry blossoms and unwind a bit after our first wedding of the year. The cherry blossoms were a little after their peak… but they were still gorgeous – so I couldn’t complain! Especially since the weather was still freezing back in Chicago – but it was in the 70′s in D.C. Such a perfect spring trip!:)

I feel like I get so nervous I’ll blink and ruin the photo (but not realize it) when using film that I stare VERY intently at the camera. haha! I swear I’m not this intense!

I could not get enough of the blooms!!! We didn’t even have buds on our trees yet in Chicago back in March!

My handsome husband!

A little self-timer action… the only place we could find to set the camera down since we didn’t bring a tripod…:)

The other thing about film is that you don’t realize when something is off about a photo & don’t know to retake it! (Like my nose being crazy crunched and weird looking in this kissing self-timer photo… haha! Oh well, it’s 1 of 2 photos we have together from the trip – so I’ll take it!)

Then we started to make our way back to the hotel for the night…

Did I mention I was loving the flowers?!

We got a crazy awesome deal on a Kimpton Hotel downtown because we booked on Expedia (without knowing what hotel it was, just the star rating) about an hour before check-in. It was such a cool space – and the hallways were HUGE and went on for what felt like miles!

The next day we hopped in our rental car and drove 4 hours over to Roanoke, VA to spend some time with James’ Grandmother. I had never met her before, and James hadn’t seen her in much too long – so it was absolutely wonderful to get some quality time with her! We slept over Monday night and spent some of Tuesday with her before heading back to D.C. again.

I’m actually obsessed with the image below. This was taken as we were getting in the car to leave on Tuesday after we’d taken his Grandmother out to lunch. She looked so positively joyful smiling at us from her front walk – that I couldn’t help but snap a picture before she had time to react to me picking up the camera. This is the smile she has on her face nearly all the time – and it is the sweetest thing. I’m so happy I was able to catch it.

We got back to D.C. just in time to meet James’ Aunt Debbie and cousin Shar for dinner and drinks! We had a fabulous time and lots of laughs with these two!

Then as the sun was setting over D.C. James and I headed over to see the monuments (via rental bikes) that we had missed earlier. We of course found the prettiest (still peak) cherry blossom trees on the other side of the Tidal Basin … but we were losing light so the film images are a bit blurry because of the wind and slow shutter speeds. I did take some with my iPhone that turned out – but for some reason I actually really love the look of these, blur and all… especially the last one.

It was a wonderfully exhausting trip – but we loved every moment of getting to see James’ family and spending some quality time just the two of us being tourists in D.C. as well. I was originally going to mix in my iPhone photos with these… but decided not to. I didn’t want them to tarnish the experience of looking through the film.;)

I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did!

 

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May 7, 2013 - 12:15 pm

Emilia Jane - So many beautiful images…I just love the color of film :-)

May 7, 2013 - 1:15 pm

Erin - I can’t imagine having to wait so long to see what you got! I haven’t yet had the confidence to shoot film, but I love love love the way yours turned out! It sounds like a great practice to keep up the love :)

May 7, 2013 - 1:56 pm

Lauren Wakefield - These are gorgeous! I think I might need to borrow your film camera sometime. That photo of you that is your profile picture is gorgeous! And I love the one of you and James kissing…smushed nose and all.

May 7, 2013 - 2:04 pm

Kinzie - I agree with Lauren – the smushy nose is too cute. This makes me want to explore film even more than I wanted to before. It’s on my list!

May 7, 2013 - 2:08 pm

Lauren Fair - Ahhhh yes to shooting personal trips on film! we’re doing the same thing this year and it’s so rewarding! not to mention zero editing time afterward ;) So glad you guys had fun on the east coast…next time we need to meet up!

May 7, 2013 - 3:36 pm

Elissa - Sooo pretty. I love the squishy-nose photo :)

May 7, 2013 - 3:41 pm

Emily - These are so dreamy!

May 7, 2013 - 4:00 pm

Amanda Miller - I’m in cherry blossom heaven! And you guys are pretty much the most gorgeous couple, just sayin! Love that photo of you looking out the window! And of James’s grandma smiling! I’m thinking about getting a better medium format cam (All I had in school was a crappy TLR Seagull), would you recommend the Mamiya 645? I want something that won’t break the bank. :)

May 7, 2013 - 5:01 pm

Lauren (PB&G) - Loving the jigsaw puzzle mirror! The grain in these are beautiful. Heck, everything about them is beautiful!

May 8, 2013 - 4:32 am

LeolaK - Love these!! I would have a time now trying to load this camera…but this post is definitely urging me to break it out! Love the picture of James’s grandma – she’s adorable!

Amanda – the Mamiya 645AFD is the bomb! I’ll put it this way…I never plan to sell mine. =)